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Living
With Spina Bifida
By Robert M. Hensel
February 22, 2002
I
grew up with a birth defect known as spina bifida, a disability
that affects my sense of balance, causing me to walk with a limp.
Not only does it affect the function of the legs, but it also has
an impact on the kidneys, causing them to deteriorate.
The
disability has had its ups and downs. As a young child, I can remember
the way other children would look at me and stare because of the
way that I walked. There were many times that my schoolmates would
laugh at me and call me names simply because of their lack of understanding
of why I was a little different, especially back in the mid 70s
and early 80s. Children then were just unwilling to take the time
to learn why one of their classmates might walk, speak or seem noticeably
different from themselves.
Now
that I am an adult, I have noticed that the stares and names have
begun to fade, and judgments that once were negative have begun
to turn toward acceptance. The signing of the Americans with Disabilities
Act (ADA) has played a great part in breaking down some of those
barriers that, as a child, left me to fight a war that seemed to
have no end. Now I look beyond what I can't do and focus on what
I CAN. I have learned that limitations open doors that have been
closed, showing other ways to meet our needs. I have always looked
at life as a challenge, grasping each obstacle with open arms. There
is nothing in this world that comes easy. I must stand tall and
look forward, to be ever so ready for what still lies ahead.
People
often feel sorry for those who were born with some type of disability.
But their compassion is misplaced. Yes, I may not be able to run
as fast or perform certain tasks, but my disability gives me a better
look at life and all that's around me. I want to be seen not as
a disability but as a person who has, and will continue to, bloom.
So
I decided to become a advocate on behalf of disabled Americans,
to fight for our rights that for so long have been ignored. I feel
that it only takes one powerful voice to change the minds of many
nations, and as long as I have a mouth to use and a mind to think
I will continue to work to bring peace upon the disabled community.
Robert
Hensel is a poet as well as an advocate for persons with disabilities.
One of his poems, shown below, is "Poetry at Play."
Poetry
at Play
A poem is but a thought, a mere memory
caught at play.
One's visions reenacted, by the passing of
each day.
Treasured waking moments I've accumulated
along the way, shall be locked within these
pages, where they're forever bound to stay.
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